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Emerge From Your Divorce or Separation With More Awareness, Peace, And Strength

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learn to create your own personalized roadmap so you

Emerge From Your Divorce or Separation With More Awareness, Peace, And Strength

Getting through it and Growing through it are not the same. 

Whether the process of separation or divorce is amicable or messy, many people lose their sense of self and diminish their chances of healing and rebuilding sooner.

I’m not going to lie to you, the process can be a challenge…but there is a way to do more than simply tough your way through it.

You can grow through it.   My book explains how. 

You can aid the healing process.

Throughout my years of coaching and assisting  clients, I have developed six essential objectives that can significantly enhance the healing journey.

I will guide you through each step, assisting you in developing a clear plan from today until you have successfully completed your healing journey.

Every journey is personal, but I will help you navigate.

With things you can do right now...

Regardless of where you are in the process today, my book will meet you there.

Together we will boost your confidence and self-esteem while you make more informed decisions in life as a whole, not just in your relationships.

You’ll emerge from this experience as a healthier and more aware person, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Complete Your Journey without the emotional baggage

Vance A. Taylor
Certified Life Coach / Speaker / Author

With the help of the You Were Born to Heal process, those suffering from divorce or separation can implement an effective plan to help them heal and become empowered again.

If you are willing to do the work…a transformed, more hopeful future awaits you. 

LIFE is far too precious to put off your journey of healing.

what you will find inside

A guide to increasing hope and transformation throughout your healing journey

What to do today / tomorrow

Increase your awareness of how to gain momentum during the challenging initial phases of divorce or separation. You’ll discover proven ways to reflect on your experiences so they help you rediscover who you are and move forward in a positive direction. Gain techniques to effectively manage your emotions and regain a sense of normalcy in your life.

Where to put your focus

Discover effective strategies to bring back joy and happiness into your daily routine. Pinpoint the crucial aspects of your life that require attention, and implement positive changes to foster hope and transformation. As you progress, you'll become more mindful and flourish on your path towards healing.

How to know when you are ready

Explore key self-reflection and evaluation techniques that aid in determining the right personal schedule for your healing and restoration. By utilizing these tools, you can successfully avoid the potential pitfalls of moving too hastily or slowly towards your next phase. Additionally, you'll learn how to recognize patterns in your own life that indicate where you are on your unique healing journey.

How to resume when you are ready

Implement several step-by-step resources that assist you in defining your path forward, as well as strengthening your ability to be deliberate and steadfast about your next chapter. You'll gain insights into creating space for your desires and navigating through what you can and cannot control. Moreover, you'll align more completely with the internal changes that will enable you to thrive going forward.
The chapters of you were born to heal guide you...

Step by Step Through Your Own Journey of Healing

The Past: How’d You Get Here?

CHAPTER 1

Understanding how you got to this point in your love life is key to doing things differently moving forward. Look at your past in terms of how it relates to your present, which is where healing and transformation take place.
The Wound: Your Emotional Journey

CHAPTER 2

Divorce is an emotionally taxing process that can impact multiple areas of your life in a negative way. Learn how to manage your emotions by controlling psychological time, and the mental narrative you create about situations.

The Scab: Partner with Time to Heal

CHAPTER 3

Healing starts from within, so focus on what you can control and let time handle the rest. Engage in activities that benefit your overall well-being, and bring you a sense of joy and fulfillment as you adapt to a new way of living.

The Scar: An Insightful Reminder

CHAPTER 4

You won’t completely forget your divorce experience. Don’t allow what you’ve been through to keep you from moving forward. Use the experience, and lessons learned along the way, as a reminder to do things differently in an effort not to repeat the same mistakes.
Preparing for Love Again

CHAPTER 5

When the time is right, go into your next relationship with more awareness of who you are in love, and what it takes to maintain a healthy relationship.  Learn how to identify people you’re most compatible with, and reduce the risk of connecting with those who are not on the same page.

A New You

CHAPTER 6

Emerge from this experience with a renewed sense of purpose. Build upon the mental and emotional challenges you’ve overcome, and live a life that you desire.

What Will Your Next Chapter Be?

You deserve to determine the next chapter of your life.
Allow me to show you how to keep the past from writing your future.

More Whole

Taking positive steps towards rebuilding your life- you’ll find yourself growing stronger, more grounded, and more in tune with what brings you fulfillment in your new reality.

More Confident

Knowing where you are and where you want to go – following your plan to embrace the big and beautiful life that awaits you.

Lighter, More Free

Healing, releasing, and making necessary adjustments –  so your previous experiences will positively impact your present and future, rather than shackling you to the past.

Grab these 2 FREE Resources to Help You Navigate through your breakup or separation

I 've Helped Many Others to Create a Personal Path to Become a Better Version of Themselves

That is why I am confident my book can assist you…

My process will help you identify where opportunities to increase awareness, grow, and transform exist.  

Then taking a step-by-step approach, I’ll guide you at your own pace, to carefully progress through the stages of healing and transformation.

I 've Helped Many Others to Create a Personal Path to Become a Better Version of Themselves

That is why I am confident my book can assist you…

My process will help you identify where opportunities to increase awareness, grow, and transform exist.  

Then taking a step-by-step approach, I’ll guide you at your own pace, to carefully progress through the stages of healing and transformation.

How Vance Helped My Journey

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“Encouraging, thoughtful, motivating, non-judgemental, funny and an all around amazing coach and person.  He has not only provided me useful insights, new tools and fresh perspectives quickly, but has been a great help in finding strategies to navigate challenges in business, relationships and life overall.  I feel heard, seen and supported when I engage with Vance and after each session I walk away with a significantly more empowered outlook.  He came as a recommendation to me at a time when I was looking for ways to cope through a difficult situation, and has since shown up for me whenever I need him.  He has been a godsend as a coach and a friend, and I continue to recommend him to family, friends and anyone ready to do the work to see positive change in their life.”

Ebony W. 

“This coaching experience with Vance was phenomenal.  He helped me look into myself, and recommended ways to grow as an individual.  I highly recommend his coaching to anyone looking to improve through self awareness.”

Sebastian G.

I met Vance while emotionally broken from a recent breakup, and he made me feel more confident in my ability to recognize patterns and red flags that could lead to a failing relationship. The one thing I took away from our coaching sessions was ensuring that your values are aligned.

Melanie B.

“As his client for well-over a six-month period, his highly attentive services positively impacted my situations and over-all outlook on life tremendously. He listened very attentively to my needs and simultaneously was responsive to my emotional needs. He formulated a tailored recovery regimen for me that consisted of me doing self-introspection, self-accountability and self-awareness to the conditions that I considered to be adverse. I had to acknowledge and accept the part that I played in my own destruction and learned to change the dynamics to gain a more positive outlook. Vance is awesome and his incredible regimen is designed to identify your weakness and assist you in mental strength conditioning of those areas. I am positive proof that it works and more positive than ever, ready, willing and able to conquer that next challenging episode.  Therefore, it is without hesitation nor mental reservation that highly recommend his services.”

LeNorah H.

“At the lowest point in my professional and personal life, when my mental and emotional state was in a tug of war with even being, Vance came to the rescue and created balance.  Not only did his techniques and emotional IQ intelligence offer comfort and much needed guidance, but his communication style is also above all others.  His flexibility gave me an outlet to express myself and seek assistance at times I needed it the most without resistance nor him being unavailable.  He was always present and responsive to my needs.  His training in the areas I needed, of career and relationship coaching, was top notch.  As a result, my entire outlook on life and my relationships (personal and business) became more positive, and I am now PRESENT in all interactions.”

Akilah S.

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To support you along your unique journey of healing, I have created worksheets, self-assessments, and a special workbook filled with activities and instructions for reflection, inspiration, motivation, and directing each step forward.

Free Downloads

After your purchase, you will receive a link to access these materials and download them to use at any point.

Additional Resources

You Were Born to Heal also contains additional resources that will enhance your healing experience. You will find them useful to gain inspiration, motivation, and reflection as you move through the process.
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